Seriously guys, if you haven’t looked in to blahtherapy yet, do it!
Why’s that dear?
yo if you havent eaten yet today, go eat
hello everyone that needs to do their hw
do your homework!! you can do it!! after you’ve finished you can blog all you want!! ＤＯ ＹＯＵＲ ＨＯＭＥＷＯＲＫ ＦＲＩＥＮＤ ＹＯＵ ＣＡＮ ＤＯ ＩＴ
If you really like this guy you’re dating and you want the relationship to keep going, tell the first guy sorry but he had his chance and now it’s three years later and clearly unavailable for a relationship with him.
how do you feel about the guy you’re currently in a relationship with?
Ask him how he feels about you. There’s no sense in beating around the bush.
You said you haven’t been paying attention to your health, and you notice that taking a toll on your body. So change that. Whatever needs you’ve been neglecting, start fulfilling them. If your body needs more water more often, start trying to drink more water throughout the day. If you need more sleep, look in to natural sleep enhancers (like Valerian root) or ways to help you fall asleep (like lavender scented spray/oil). Eat more if you haven’t been eating as much.
Also please take care of your wounds. Do not neglect those, infections are not fun.
You went years without cutting. So you know there are alternatives that work for you. And you know you’re able to not hurt yourself and still be okay with whatever life is throwing at you. You just forgot.
Revisit coping mechanisms you used to use. If those don’t work, it’s time to explore new ones! Let someone know (if you can) what’s going on, so they can help distract you and/or remind you you don’t need to hurt yourself. If you feel like you can do it, throw out the tools you’ve been using, or ask someone to keep them hidden.
Something to always ask yourself is: Would I do this to my best friend’s body if they were feeling this way? To my partner’s body if they were feeling this way? To my child’s body if they were feeling this way? To my pet’s body if they were feeling this way?
If the answer is no (and I really hope it is), do everything in your power to try and not do it to your own body. If your loved ones were feeling low and hopeless and unwanted, would you handle that by hurting them?
You deserve the love and care you give to your loved ones. Remember that.
I am the exact same age as you and do the same thing you do. It’s okay.
Take the time you need to figure out what you want to do. Talk to people in the fields you’re interested in.
There’s no harm in not knowing what you want to do yet! We’re still young, my dear. There’s still lots to explore and lots to learn about ourselves.
Be easier on yourself. I know society pressures us into going to college right after high school, and that we should know what we want to do, but it’s unreasonable. We were stuck learning the same basic 4/5 subjects with a few limited choice electives here and there for 12 years, and then suddenly we’re expected to know what we want to do for the rest of our lives? Nah.
Travel if you want. Take classes that sound interesting. Volunteer at places like shelters and libraries. Do your own research on whatever the hell interests you. Pick up hobbies that you’ve always wanted to try.
Breathe babe. Loads of people in their 20s have very little figured out. You’re definitely not alone.